Show a shy guy you like him
Started by verliebt , 10 Feb Posted 10 Feb Am totally and hopelessly in love with the soulmate of my life. I dont know him well enough to know what to do - I dont know if we are even "friends" right now or just a couple people who get together with a mutual friend often. He is average looking gorgeous to me of course, but average to everyone else while I am on the less than average side not the thin european type person people expect here. Can someone offer some serious good advice.SEE VIDEO BY TOPIC: How to tell a guy you like him if you’re shy
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Started by verliebt , 10 Feb Posted 10 Feb Am totally and hopelessly in love with the soulmate of my life. I dont know him well enough to know what to do - I dont know if we are even "friends" right now or just a couple people who get together with a mutual friend often.
He is average looking gorgeous to me of course, but average to everyone else while I am on the less than average side not the thin european type person people expect here. Can someone offer some serious good advice. I know I need to find a way to tell him, but I just dont know how that wont embarrass both of us if there are no feelings on his side.
I can not go on like this has been months now as cant focus, sleep, etc Every man would be flattered. But he still may not be interested. Ask him out for a couple of beers, movie or a dinner.
He will get the hint. Is valentine day on Tuesday that is usually a good way to at least let him know he has an admirer.
It would probably help if you asked while in the company of your mutual friend In any case, you're not in love, you're infatuated. Love is something different entirely and usually involves some kind of reciprication. Ask him out! It surely must be better than sleepless nights?
Ask if he's going to a certain party that you'll also be at. Get talking to him, see what you have in common both like football? Go to a match together. Talked about a new film? Make a date to see it, that sort of thing.
Just the two of you, he will understand and either say yes or no I always find that hurts more. If he says no, you can still go on being 'friends' with no complications. Sounds like your not ready for it.
From my experience, if somethings meant to happen, it will. When two people are really meant to be together theres usually a spark that pulls them together and its actually hard to avoid. If you have to struggle or work for it, rather than just let things happen then that spark probably isnt there.
These fears you have, are probably warranted. Thats not to say you shouldnt try and spend as much time with him as possible, with your mutual friend, cos maybe something will happen in the future. I've never really understood the whole being shy thing. But this might be an excellent opportunity to become a bit more outgoing. Call him up, ask him out for coffee or a movie or dinner or iceskating or bowling or something. Couldn't agree more. That said, you could maybe force the issue by sticking your testicles on the line and telling him how you feel.
Oh this is tricky, brings back lots of memories from teenage years! Its difficult when you are both so shy. Need some background facts - do you rely on the mutual friend being around in order to do stuff together or do you think you could have a good and reasonably relaxed time with just the two of you together? In that case maybe I'd try and do something just the two of you. Do you have any indication of if he likes you or not?
Can you 'engineer' a situation where you can be close to him and a bit intimate no excessively over the top stuff - start by holding his hand or something.
My advice would be ignore Kza's and accept Carm's. Email to ask if he fancies meeting up and doing something. Trust me, he will take the hint. If he's interested, he'll say yes. Even if he's already seen the film or otherwise hates the suggested idea itself. If he says no, you've lost no face. Go out and get drunk with the guy and then later after a good night send them a drunken loving text or mail telling them how you feel.
Perhaps she should post a pic here and we can judge whether they are worth getting out before we go and hand out this kind of advice. It would be wrong for us to make the suggestion and possibly add to the poor girls humiliation if her baps are not very impressive. For advanced beer methodists, there is no text or mail.
Rather you wake up with a hangover and if, when you kick your leg out in bed, you touch someone else, then the job may well be a good one. Please consult your doctor or pharmacist. No liability is taken for following this advice. Keep away from children and animals. Also it sounds like your mutual friend might have some impressions on the matter, find them out first perhaps.
I say do as the Germans do and be direct. Works for me every time and I don't fit the "European ideal" either. In fact I've had to literally say"you do realise I'm hitting on you". You need to be a member in order to leave a comment.
Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy! How to tell a shy guy that you like him Started by verliebt , 10 Feb Am totally and hopelessly in love with the soulmate of my life 3.
He is German 4. He is just as shy 5. Neither of us have had relationships within the last years 6. He is average looking gorgeous to me of course, but average to everyone else while I am on the less than average side not the thin european type person people expect here 8. I am afraid of both acception and rejection 9. Have no idea if he would even be interested in being friends let alone more.
Have no idea what so ever at all what to do??? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites. If he feels the same about you he will instinctively know it is you that has sent him a card. Well, if I were you I'd ask him to go and do something "non-date-like". Something you know that interests him I'm no expert though Btw, does the mutual friend know you like this guy???
Awww Of course until point 5, I thought you were about to ask out the former Herr Indoors! Good luck! Go get 'em, tiger. I'm excited for you on your behalf if that helps!
Good luck!! From the sound of it they are large baps too. From the sound of it, they are large baps too. I find this incredible, the "Soulmate of your life" and then you quote point 6 and point 9! How can someone be your soulmate if you don't even know these basics! I think you have to think back to what he has said and done, he must have given you some clues?
This cannot be on looks alone, or is it the way he is with your mutual friend? Look back and recognise the signs! Heres the ultimate website for this sort of thing. Its mostly designed for guys to pull chicks but im sure it works the other way around too. Lots of tips for getting past shyness too. Im sure the powerful NLP techniques will help. If he's shy, the thought probably hasn't even crossed his mind that you could possibly like him.
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