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Bonus: Get free access to my new course and discover the 5 conversation mistakes that put you in the friendzone. After she walked away from me I could proudly or not so proudly say that I got rejected by women. Everyone who interprets rejection as a form of failure would have labeled me as the biggest loser on the planet. And that is why I succeed. Allow me to share with you what I have learned from mine. The idea of approaching a beautiful woman in broad daylight terrified me.

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5 Truths I Learned After Getting Rejected 100 Times

FAQ on Coronavirus and Mefi : check before posting, cite sources; how to block content by tags. Hey guys, let me start of by saying that I know some of you guys will try to help me out by telling me to be more confident and take risks and try to deconstruct my personality based on my previous questions and what I'm writing here today and give me pointers on what I can do to improve myself. I've just reached a point now that I am so frustrated with getting rejected over and over again that the thought of making more effort to just hear another no seems very unappealing and down right depressing.

I'm 26 years old, and I haven't been on a real date in a good solid two years since my last relationship broke off. A real date being something I didn't take out of desperation and desire to not be lonely but was attracted and enjoyed their company. I have a good job, I'm not ugly, I've been told that I am very attractive and cute by at least ten different women in my life time maybe even more than ten. But the past two years has just been a constant string of no's.

Over and over again it happens and you just start wondering: 1 Maybe I am not fit enough? I'm Indian btw 3 Maybe my messages are terrible? All of the effort I've made to try and date online hasn't worked out. So the past few months I've tried talking to girls at bars. I usually strike up a friendly conversation and joke around and make them laugh.

I've gotten maybe 10 numbers from girls in the past three months. I had good solid conversation, making them laugh and I asked them questions about their life and their interests. But all of those girls fell of at one point or another after my communication with them a few days latter and none of the ten girls made it to going out on a date with me.

This makes me wonder and ask, "whats wrong with me? Am I ugly? Am I approaching the wrong people? The truth is that neither I or anyone out their on Ask meta filter can really give me a concrete answer because each woman is different and its hard to nail down that common issue that could be holding me back and especially if people who try to help don't know you like this website forum. I'm only bringing this up because I know people still want to help but usually these type of issues are hard to solve.

The reason that I wrote all of this out was to give you an idea of how I'm feeling right now. I've heard that dating is a numbers game. I work in financial sales, so I make cold calls and very strongly understand the concept of filling your pipeline with more prospects.

I know that may sound cheesy or unromantic or unsexy but I'm just talking about it from a large scale perspective. I don't treat the women I talk to as women number 5, and I give her my full attention and interest and respect her uniqueness each and every time.

But the idea is that if you hear enough no's you are bound to get a yes. That if you only ask two women out in a year you are most likely not going to be on a date that year but if you ask 20 or 30 the chances go up. The problem I'm having is just wanting to give up trying. I feel like I've tried so many times and I'm not getting anything from anyone. Its so tempting to throw my hands up and say forget this. I also understand that relationships and dating are not everything and have a great live outside of trying to meet women.

The general advice is to stop looking for it and focus on yourself and I've done that as well. I've spent time in places with people enjoying myself and treating myself well. Working out, hanging with friends and not focusing on women and making sure my ducks are all in a row.

But there comes a time that you focus on yourself enough eventually you ask yourself, "okay, its nice being happy alone but I sure would like to share this with another person. I've just reached a point that I want to give up trying, and there is so much advice out there that tells you to try different things and I feel like I've given it my all and I still failed.

I know the best thing is to take a break and renew my spirits to feel re-energized. But even after that when I'm feeling better I still sit there and ponder "What is something I can do different this time around so I dont get rejected?

I had my profile looked at my various people and forums for critique and posted full body shots and what not. But nobody bites. I just dont see anything that could help me at this point and feel hopeless after trying all these things. I don't like to quit in life as I feel its a weakness and seals your fate to whatever you run away from, failure or fear. But I am close to just saying fuck it. Any advice guys, people who have been in my shoes?

I don't mean to be overly critical, but are you sure that when you're talking to women you're not coming across as desperate? Because that's definitely the kind of the vibe I'm getting from the length of this question. The only thing which I didn't see addressed in your question is - what are these women like who you are approaching?

Are they all really hot women? Are there any who are more average looking women? I bet I could write you a Craigslist ad that women would respond to, if you would like me to just MeMail me. Taking a break is not quitting. You're burnt out. It's ok. Take a few months off.

You'll know when you are ready to try again. Also, you're ok. Finding the right person is really hard. You're clearly doing fine dating. Women talk to you. Give you their numbers. Tell you that you are cute. You're good. It's just hard and sometimes it comes down to luck. Take some time off. And when you feel up to it, get back in the game. I try really hard not to be desperate, and I know its a big turn off. So on a case by case basis I dont feel desperate and even act a little playful by making little jokes and being my usual self.

But after a while when you zoom out of just that one interaction you start to ask yourself all of this like "why isnt any of this working" but I dont think about that when I am talking to one person because its larger than that really. Thats what I think I am doing.

So no I dont think I give off a desperate vibe when I talk to them, but yes I am desperate now here after having tried so much and not gotten anything over a longer time frame posted by curious-mind at PM on October 17, The women I approach are from Id say not to sound sexist or objectifying but to use a number system from say a 6 to an 8. I dont need the hottest woman in the world and usually "10's" have emotional issues because their life is so different from all the male attention they get.

So I aim more realistically at range. I myself have been told by guys and girls I am a 7. Usually in online dating white women dont respond to me and its hispanic or indian women that do. I dont care what race a person is but I guess it might play a factor based on this blog about how race affects you online that okcupid did.

Its just that there arent that many indian women to talk to online to begin with so I have to talk to white women who I am actually more attracted to anyway. I dont hold it against anyone that they might not date me because of my race because they are free to choose, but that doesnt mean its doesnt suck for me.

Dude, what do you like doing? You say some stuff in your question about hanging with friends and focusing on yourself, but it sounds like you're mostly thinking about those activities in terms of how it'll help you get better at dating.

That's counterproductive: right now you aren't going to enjoy things if you only couch them in terms of future dating success, because you don't seem to really like dating by which I mean the going-out-and-trying-to-chat-up-attractive-strangers part, not the being-in-a-relationship-and-doing-stuff-together part , or at the very least are kind of burnt out on it at the moment.

And that's okay! A lot of people hate or get tired of the go-out-and-meet-datable people thing, especially if they've been doing it without a break for a few years.

So take a break. Don't tell yourself it has to be forever, but don't pressure yourself back into dating within a few months either. Start doing things because you enjoy them, not because they distract you from thinking about dating or because you hope they'll make you more attractive to women. Just have a good time, you know? You deserve it, and it doesn't sound like you're having much of one by obsessing over your perceived dating failures and believe me: two years without a relationship in your 20s is really not very long at all.

Looking at your history, it looks like you've dated at least a couple women in the last year or two. What did you do to get dates with them? What's your mark for this? For me, I'm actually happy to go on second and third dates with guys when I was single as long as there were no red flags on the first date. I have a male friend who wants attraction--and sex!

While I think attraction is very important, patience is a virtue. Also, if you've already written your date off, then do both of you a favor and don't go on the date at all.

Depends on your date. Some women care, some don't. And there are hot women in both categories. As you probably already know, confidence is the real issue.

Why Do Women Reject Me?

Am I just not good enough for the women I want? So, here are 4 possible reasons why women are rejecting you right now, and how you can change that…. One of the biggest mistakes that a lot of guys make with women, is falling into the trap of believing that if a woman likes him as a person, she will then want to have sex and start a relationship with him. Women do like nice guys, but they only want a nice guy who has the ability to make her feel sexually attracted and turned on during an initial interaction. Please have sex with me tonight.

By: Vic. A person sets a firm boundary that they do not want to be involved with you.

You see a really beautiful girl and get crush on her. Her smile, the way she tuck her hair behind her ear and her enchanting voice take you over completely. You can't help yourself but think about the girl all night and day. And the moment you decide to ask her out, you heart starts to race.

The Pain of Rejection – Why Does it Keep Happening To You?

By Guest vento, April 25, in soompi hangout. How come i always get rejected by every girl? That just sounds weird that you go around soliciting yourself to be a "good guy, so date me! Because most girls like bubble gum first then good guys last. You just haven't found a girl that like you back. Move on. Yet another reason why rape is so enticing to the single male population Ask a girl out thats on the same level as you. Are you involved in any clubs or activities? But really, if you are coming off as too nice, they'll friend zone you.

10 Reasons You Are Getting Rejected By Girls

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Guys, These Are The 7 Reasons You Keep Getting Rejected By Women

There's nothing wrong with being rejected. It happens to all of us. The important thing is to learn something from each rejection. Why did she turn down your approach?

FAQ on Coronavirus and Mefi : check before posting, cite sources; how to block content by tags. Hey guys, let me start of by saying that I know some of you guys will try to help me out by telling me to be more confident and take risks and try to deconstruct my personality based on my previous questions and what I'm writing here today and give me pointers on what I can do to improve myself. I've just reached a point now that I am so frustrated with getting rejected over and over again that the thought of making more effort to just hear another no seems very unappealing and down right depressing. I'm 26 years old, and I haven't been on a real date in a good solid two years since my last relationship broke off. A real date being something I didn't take out of desperation and desire to not be lonely but was attracted and enjoyed their company.

How to Deal with Rejection from a Girl

Your heart starts to race. Your fingers are sweaty. Your throat feels as if you have swallowed a hand full of dirt. You can barely breathe while you are looking at this incredibly beautiful woman. Right before she walks past you, you take your courage in both hands and approach her.

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It is very important to understand where you met the girl and whether you saw her before. If you have met on social networks, then the reasons for her coldness may slightly differ from the reasons for getting rejected by a girl you have met in the street, that is, you see each other and imagine what kind of people you are and how you look. There may be a whole list of problems that need to be solved or just need to be taken for granted. Of course, it is about the first date , but some of the reasons can be applied in any case.

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